First of all, apologies for the sudden leave; I was caught up in a VERY tight net of academics. I had been putting a lot of stuff off for a long time, and it took its toll. I guess I should have written this post a long time ago, but I had to really put myself together for my last exams. Second, thanks very much if you've been visiting this place even in the utter neglect I gave it.
Many ask me the reasons for my plan not to Blog anymore. Well, First, my Life at IITB is over. The purpose of the Blog is over. Second, Blogging is one of the "Intuitive Loops" I fall into. With such a plethora of ways to express your creativity on the Blog world (and that you always want to find out what others think of it,) you tend to find yourself deep within a mire, especially if you're a perfectionist like me. You tend to forget everything else and soon deviate far from the original purpose of your Blog. The Blog stays at the back of your mind in all aspects of your life, and in a way, you're caught in a big Loop.
Well, now that I'm back to my most liked mode of creativity (Programming,) I no longer have that itching desire to write here. If anything, this Blog has been my mate for 3 years. I'd like to keep it that way: as a memory of those days. My original plans of writing all about IIT life don't seem so lucrative anymore; in fact, I'd like to keep those memories within me. Whatever I wrote here in place of it reminds me of those times in a very different way, and I think it's pretty intriguing to anyone (with the exception to myself and those who know me very well) to infer my state of mind from what I wrote. That's pretty brilliant, in my opinion.
But I think this place deserves one final rant. Here goes:
I hate it when people say, "Common Sense." Everyone's so up in their brains with this concept. Anyone without it is instantly seen as dumb and not worthy of company. Frankly, I don't understand a bit of it. Isn't it common sense that says lighter objects fall on Earth later than heavy objects based upon the common observation that a feather falls later than a stone?
It's "Common Sense" to wear great clothing. It's common sense to impress others with your dress sense (including a job interview). It's common sense that a man who "thinks too much" must have some kind of a problem. It's common sense that a man without Confidence is worthy of no responsibility (A man who doubts his decisions has a better chance of anticipating potential flaws and disasters in schemes and plans, and hence is better adept at handling them.) But no; We want "Smart" people in the lead, who take decisions at lightning pace, and who, when things go wrong blame "market conditions" or "the government" for everything. Why? Common Sense.
I was once among a group of people who were talking about how they deal with Life and it's vagaries. There was this person who said, "I don't believe in Hard Work. Smart Work is everything. It's this age's necessity. You can't go anywhere without Smart Work." All such people are capable of are coming up with witty Advertisement Taglines or catchy Bollywood tunes.
Well, why am I so angry about this? If all we human beings ever used was Common Sense, we would still be living in caves. "If fire were such a good idea, why weren't all the other cavemen using it already?"
If "Smart Work" is all that we ever cared about, nobody would have invented the Wheel. Everyone would have been busy attempting to look pretty/fight with others in order to mate.
It seems, under the shelter of society, most have forgotten cold, bitter reality: Nature is not kind. We might have left our primitive roots far behind, but we're all animals in our hearts. Sex is still a big issue in all our minds; food is what makes us go; power is highly desired; and fights between tribes (now called "countries") still exist.
I wish people would leave "Common Sense" and for once look at reality, cold and bare. I wish to see a place where nobody is trying to show others how "Confident" they are. Rather, I'd like to see a place where people find themselves in a perpetual state of enquiry and wonder. That's where we'd reach the Next Level (if that doesn't make sense, I guess you're one of those who thinks we've reached an endpoint in our evolution.)
I urge you to look around you and try to find out what you know about the things around you, and how they work. Now imagine yourself in a primitive state without those things. You'll begin to understand what I'm hinting at. Try, for a single day, doubting and questioning everything around you. You'd experience something akin to childhood; and it will give you a very painful feeling. You'd want to run away, back to the sweet shelter of society and technology. You can choose to do that and keep in that inertial state forever. Or you can face the pain for a while and enter a state of pure wonder, back to reality.
Anycase, enough ranting. I'm staying with my parents at Bilsapur, and here's an advertisement designed by one of the "Smart Workers" at this place:
Bbye from me on this Blog. I hope I actually made a point here, in this sea of opinions that is the Blogosphere.



26 comments:
Good Luck Bud :)
you have made your point, but what i fail to understand is why you have to give up on blogging..
in any case, just don't delete this blog, ok?
and why don't you use your common sense and keep blogging? :P
P.S.: You can change the blog title, you know?
and continue blogging?
:)
this blog wud always be on my blogroll.. always..
but,
why isn't this called '& this is not one of them part 7' or something?
hmm?
I trust you to make the right decisions.... So am not gonna say anything
Just that.. all the best in what you aspire to do next !..
Samby.
Seriously, didn't anyone look at the poster carefully?
Rahul, Samby,
Thanks, and same to you, man!
Pixie,
It takes a lot of energy out of me, I HAVE to construct semantically accurate sentences; otherwise it stays at the back of my mind. Also, I think 10 times before I finish any paragraph. It gives me a quite satisfaction.
I'd rather divert this energy to something else.
Express,
I think the current title is way more apt.
I'll miss thr blog. :)
All the best for everything Alok!
I added you on FB btw, so PLEASE stay in touch. :)
best of luck buddy
yes dude very true! What you said in about the common sense was very apt.. we have o constantly keep asking quetions! reminded me of Howard Roark! Mebbe u wud like to see this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zc7oZ9yWqO4
BTW dude: When i first encountered your blog I thought oh is it tht this dude will stop blogging after he is out from IITB or he will continue letting others know whtever he does after passing out and linking every other success to life @ IITB! And yes today is the day when u answered my question! As u always did!
Have a good Life n keep in touch! Best Luck with work life!
Adios!
Tc.
Omi
Goodluck & Godspeed!
Hey long long time :-) hz u?
I dont know what to say regarding ur decision to be off the blog coz i've been off the blog for 3 months. And even now i have no ideas for a topic to blog. Just out of touch!
Maybe once in a while u could log in and comment on others blog coz thats what i'm gonna do.
Hey all the best with your job! Cheers!!
I understand your POV and your reason for not blogging anymore but you can always change or open a new blog and write. if not regularly, at least sometimes.
Anyways, Good luck for the future and your blog will remain in my reader.... just in case you decide to write again. :-)
Hey Alok!
I have read each one of your blogs, mostly reading 3-4 posts together as and when I could find the time and I have really enjoyed reading all of them. They have always given me infi food for thought. You have a great talent of expressing yourself well and I really wish you get the opportunity to do something with this later in life.
Cheers to a great life ahead for you!
hey ur blog truly was a blog of material in its true sense..
will miss ur write ups..
wish u all the best for ur upcoming life..n ur future endeavors..
God bless ya!!
take care.
bye alok.
thought of blogrolling you but that wont make any sense let alone common sense.
have a happy life.
ha ha. Wasnt whining, I meant ALL :) and that is a feat considering there r so many of them.
Well expressing urself nicely is a useful skill anywhr. But what I had in mind was writing novels and stuff especially with books by iitians getting a head start by default :)
Hi Alok
I am at loss of words for expressing my thanks for writing this post. Actually, when I told one of my students about importance of hardwork and reasoning. I was told it is the SMARTWORK that is the call of the day. I was left aghast. I can't help agreeing to each and every point you have written. Wishing you all the very best in your life. I had sent you a mail. I don't know if u are logging in now-a-days
good bye dud
Dammit you're leaving???Fuck this man.Anyway,this was a great ending post and I related A LOT with it.Now that I'm going to Singapore,my parents are all too worried about how I have to represent my family and country there and hence wear 'good clothes',be properly shaven and talk in the same mechanically boring polite manner that everyone else is programmed to talk in.
But seriously,I hope that music blog idea with Shatabdi still exists ;-).It'll be cool to blog with you 2.
MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU,NOW AND FOR EVERMORE.
(And may Nevermore be with you as well :-P)
hey bro...hope u still remember me...
ok...this post really freaked me out!!!! u can't just walk away from here....even if your life at iitb is over but still...
i agree with jixed pixie...just change the name
plz don't remove this blog...i have disappeared from here for atleast one and a half month but u guys are like a family to me and will always remain so...
my blogger family will not b completed without u
please continue writing...
a request from a sister! :'(
hi buddy !
ive tagged you .. hee hee.. but this one is mandatory ! check 'Sach ka Samna' on my blog :-)
happy f'ship day
nice and intelligent words on how your blogs stay behind ur meind in everything u do>>it"s like u cant move pasdt what u only said>>trapped into own words>!>>
but i still say>>>do read others blog and write >but only seldom. and if possible in some real vague terms what"s up there in ur mind>>>that matters too< like this blogs u leave over to remind u of something>>those furtue writeup will keep reminding u < and it vaguely writen thne **only U** of what u write>>the moments and the emotions up in the air then when u wrote them and of time of which u wrote>
happy days ahead for u<<
the "horrible" jadugar!!
so keep this one and start a new one too..
new place.. new memories.. new blog..
what say.. :D
you write good.. and you d=should not give up on it
btw i liked your idea of doubting and questioning everyhting
-deepshikha
was just passing by
i hav never ever posted a comment but surely i m HIGHLY IMPRESSED BY ur thoughts !!!
well done and best of luck for avaya !!!
Yours was one of the first blogs i started following regularly.what i really liked about each of your posts was the simplicity with which you expressed the most complicated things.
Anyways,good luck and i'll miss your blog.
Nice BLOG.................................................
Gods mill grinds slow but sure........................................
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